DefectiveAngel Posted November 4, 2014 (edited) Hi, I wasn't exactly sure where to put this, but I need a little advice. Is there anywhere on the forums that I can page for a member? The person who purchased the body in my Miku split hasn't responded or read my PMs to her. I was getting worried about her since it's going on 3 weeks now. She's already paid for the body so naturally I want to get what is rightfully hers shipped to her ASAP. I went to PayPal and found the email address linked to that account so I could email her directly and that hasn't even gotten a response. There is an address listed for her, but I just didn't want to mail to that in case she wanted sent elsewhere or to just randomly mail such an expensive item to someone being unresponsive. Maybe I'm just being a bit impatient. I just feel weird having an item that has been paid for and belongs to someone else. I also checked her profile on here and she was last active October 21st. I just hope she is okay and nothing has happened. The member I'm concerned about is miamurray. If anyone knows her or another way to get in touch with her that would be awesome. I just wanted to maybe get some more suggestions on what I should do to maybe get in touch with her better. Thanks in advance! EDIT She still hasn't responded to PMs on this forum and DOA. She also has been non responsive to emails sent directly to her (if I have the right email). If anyone knows this member and any alternate ways to get in touch with her or if she is okay please let me know. Many thanks in advance! EDIT 2 Thanks for the advice everyone! She responded and has been sick. But now I know for sure where to ship the item. Thanks again everyone for the help. Edited November 20, 2014 by Guest Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cauldroness Posted November 4, 2014 I think the Miamurry on DoA is the same person -- the profile is very similar: http://www.denofangels.com/forums/member.php?67154-Miamurray According to DoA: Last Activity: Today 11:14 AM She also posted on DoA yesterday. If you have a DoA account, maybe try PMing her there? Doll Photos & Doll Jewelry Sales: Follow me on Instagram! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DefectiveAngel Posted November 4, 2014 I think the Miamurry on DoA is the same person -- the profile is very similar:http://www.denofangels.com/forums/member.php?67154-Miamurray According to DoA: Last Activity: Today 11:14 AM She also posted on DoA yesterday. If you have a DoA account, maybe try PMing her there? Thank you so much!!! But sadly I don't have a DoA account. But I know someone who does. I'll ask and see if they will PM her for me. I just find it really odd if it is the same person why they aren't responding to get an item shipped to them that they have already paid for. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DefectiveAngel Posted November 19, 2014 Going to bump this up. Miamurray still hasn't responded to my PMs or my friend who PMed her on DOA. And that friend has done business with her before and found it odd her not responding. If anyone knows anything if she is okay or other better ways to contact her so I can get what is rightfully hers mailed to her please let me know. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sklurk Posted November 20, 2014 if it makes you uncomfortable, you can issue an ultimatum response, she's already paid for it, she's not present to collect... so give her a deadline to collect, or you will issue a refund and sell it to the next in line? If it's really been that long and it appears that she's ignoring correspondence then what would be the most you could wait? If the person isn't in a position to receive a shipment then the least they could do is tell you they aren't ready to take shipment of it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DefectiveAngel Posted November 20, 2014 if it makes you uncomfortable, you can issue an ultimatum response, she's already paid for it, she's not present to collect... so give her a deadline to collect, or you will issue a refund and sell it to the next in line? If it's really been that long and it appears that she's ignoring correspondence then what would be the most you could wait? If the person isn't in a position to receive a shipment then the least they could do is tell you they aren't ready to take shipment of it. Thanks for the advice. Thankfully she answered back today and has been sick. I'm just glad it has been resolved and I'm able to now send what belongs to her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baldylox Posted November 21, 2014 Excellent! Glad to hear she finally got back to you. Bad to hear she's been sick tho.... I do hope she gets better soon. Billy I gave up counting the girls I own, they keep multiplying and won't stop. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites