Bellatrix Posted May 14, 2012 Uhm, yeah. It's a strange topic I open, this time. I don't know precisely how to explain the feeling I have in my mind... ...first of all, I am a n00b. I know, it. Sorry. This is a good start, I think. I have the impression that I haven't caught the sympathy of someone of you from the very beginning. Why? Maybe because, in the euphoria of the moment, when I started this hobby, I was a little crazy "parsley" (it's a way we use in my country to define people that replies everywhere, chats a lot, etc.), often asking for things, being n00b, wanting to buy everything but never had the money to do it. I have various (and legit) explanations, but I don't want to find stupid justifications, in this post. Recently I understood that in the near past I did some things I could avoid, etc. So I just want to ask you all sorry if I bothered somehow. Really, it wasn't my intention to be unpleasant, with no one! Then, I want to thank you a lot: I found wonderful people here, too. People that, even if I was such a great n00b, spent some of their time to chat with me, and we did great chats in which we known each other. I refer in particular Mitsuki and Ilvias. But I had short and nice talks with many members I'd love to quote here: Anouc, Chipmunkchen, Kyojie, Littlebearries, Billy, Sakurasylph, etc. (if I forgot someone, sorry! - I'm writing many "sorry" this time!). I really feel like I am in a great family, in which we all have a part and a role, and I like you all. Uhm, yeah. Sorry if I seem confused explaining these feelings, but it's a bit hard treating these things, in another language, publicly. So, I think that's all... thanks for your time! ✩ 𝓥𝓲𝓬𝓽𝓲𝓶 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓑𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓪𝓭𝓸𝔁 ✩ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PrettyCranium Posted May 14, 2012 No apologies needed! Everyone needs to start somewhere, and I personally have not been annoyed by your posts in any way. I've enjoyed seeing the DD hobby through the eyes of someone new to it, since it has been a while since I was at that point. And I enjoy the chatting. So enjoy! And don't think too hard about things. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SisterKyoya Posted May 15, 2012 Maybe because, in the euphoria of the moment, when I started this hobby, I was a little crazy "parsley" (it's a way we use in my country to define people that replies everywhere, chats a lot, etc.) I'm curious about this use of 'parsley' and if it has anything to do with how the plant grows (kinda all over the place)? I have a hard time to containing my excitement when I love something too. My intro post was 5 pages I think. Even though I still talk a lot at times, eventually I found the spot where I can be just as happy and excited but have tamed it down to a manageable level so I don't overwhelm everyone (I think...) As another n00b there is so much to learn, do, and see it is really hard not to jump in with both feet. Don't worry, it won't all disappear overnight. If you aren't having fun with DDs, something's not right. I apologize for being rather vague, but I don't really know what happened. I just wanted to let you know that you should be OK as long as you treat people the way you hope to be treated in return. We are just a bunch of friendly people around here from what I have seen, and I love being a part of this forum! ~Sister Kyoya (another member who has the tendency to go overboard with excitement.) Forum Blog: Badger Pocket Tales (Family story from the beginning) | { Old Family story reboot: Start Here! } Follow me on Twitter, Flickr & Instagram Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baldylox Posted May 15, 2012 Don't worry so much. I haven't seen you do anything bad here or heard of you upsetting people so I think you'll be just fine. We ALL had to start out somewhere and we all have our "growing pains". As for the forum, it's not the small place it used to be. Not everyone here knows everyone else. It's also hard to keep up with everything that goes on here. So don't think you're the only one who has trouble with it. Also, since English isn't your first language, that can make things more difficult for others to understand what you are trying to say. Just take your time with your posts and comments and you'll be fine. Even tho I'm a native English speaker, I still have to go back thru my comments before I post to make sure I am coherent and make sense. I find I go off on tangents sometimes and lose focus. Billy I gave up counting the girls I own, they keep multiplying and won't stop. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
littlebearries Posted May 15, 2012 I think we all get really excited about DDs XD I think sometimes people forget that English isn't always everyone's first language... especially if they're new to the forum and not familiar with the folks around here. Just keep being you, and realize that once in a while we *all* make mistakes... or feel like we've made mistakes... but I think it always feels bigger to us than it does to other people. No need for apologies! We enjoy your company, and your contributions! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
carmen171 Posted May 15, 2012 Awww you shouldn't feel bad...we all started off not knowing....feel free to chat away and ask as many questions as possible. That is what we are all here for...I am rather new here my self Daughters~Mai,Ryomou,Kanu,Moe2,Yukino,HH02,Yoko,Marisa,Escalayer,Ms. Mariko,Lucy,Saber Xtra,Saber Alter,Rise,Sasara,Alna,Akira,H05,Mayu Waiting~Natsuki2,Melty,Aoko Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kumi Posted May 15, 2012 Well, except bugging me a lot about our split I don't think anything was wrong. So please enjoy Your stay here Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bellatrix Posted May 15, 2012 Thanks everybody it's really nice and beautiful reading so much nice words from you all. I feel like we are all friends, and it's really a great and sweet feeling :3 ✩ 𝓥𝓲𝓬𝓽𝓲𝓶 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓑𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓪𝓭𝓸𝔁 ✩ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Anouc Posted May 15, 2012 Just keep being you, and realize that once in a while we *all* make mistakes... or feel like we've made mistakes... but I think it always feels bigger to us than it does to other people. Right ^^ ... Like Billy say: Don't worry so much. Its good to know that you´re thinking of what you do or did or whatelse xD ... But dont forget, everyone of us is human and everyone of us did or do (in future xD) mistakes ... And like Kyoya say: you should be OK as long as you treat people the way you hope to be treated in return ^^ ... BTW i am nosily too what happend that you think so much of what you did or how you was ^^~ ... https://www.facebook.com/fantasydolls?ref=hl ☆〜(ゝ。∂) ♥ Dollfie Dream Faceups ~ ☆ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bellatrix Posted May 15, 2012 Nothing particular has happened I just felt that was the moment to say what I had in my mind in the last days ^^"; ✩ 𝓥𝓲𝓬𝓽𝓲𝓶 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓑𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓪𝓭𝓸𝔁 ✩ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
milkytea Posted May 15, 2012 I hope you feel better now that you've said what you wanted to say, but also that you realize that everything is a-okay~ ♥ I certainly don't feel you needed to apologize for anything~ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OtakuDepot Posted May 15, 2012 I agree with everybody else. I've never seen anything you need to apologize for. I think it's great to see people so excited for DDs. Lately I've been very un-excited about the DD hobby and reading posts from excited people helps me get that old "spark" back again. Also, since English isn't your first language, that can make things more difficult for others to understand what you are trying to say. Just take your time with your posts and comments and you'll be fine. Even tho I'm a native English speaker, I still have to go back thru my comments before I post to make sure I am coherent and make sense. I find I go off on tangents sometimes and lose focus. Billy I agree with Billy. It's sometimes easy to be misunderstood when it's just text on the Internet, even amount native English speakers. I am amazed, and jealous, so many people can speak/write multiple languages - as an American, 1 is about all I can manage it seems. HAHA I also love seeing all the posts from different people around the world. **James. Otaku Depot's growing family. “Give a man a fire and he's warm for a day, but set fire to him and he's warm for the rest of his life.” ― Terry Pratchett, Jingo Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ravendruid Posted May 21, 2012 Just adding my own "don't worry so much" to the pile. I think everyone here gets excited about DDs, if we didn't, we wouldn't be here. And most of us say something annoying from time to time, I know I've often gone back and re-read stuff I posted earlier and was annoyed with myself. All you can do is just relax and remember that no matter what, we've all got at least one thing in common here. Just as long as you don't attack anybody's girls you'll probably be fine. Daddy of: Yuriko, Sohi, Miku and SK's many kids Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bellatrix Posted May 22, 2012 I like you all, guys :3 ✩ 𝓥𝓲𝓬𝓽𝓲𝓶 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓑𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓪𝓭𝓸𝔁 ✩ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
milkytea Posted May 22, 2012 I like you all, guys :3 Clearly we like you, too! ♥ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites