Waifu/gf culture. Your thoughts? *Serious topic*

love... one of the most powerful emotions out there. but lets be honest its hard to find it. once you do find it. its even trickier to maintain it. cause once you lose it. it will feel like the end of the world and sometimes you cant bear to live on without the other and literally end existing.

 

for me its not that bad. but ill give you my 2 cents from a guys point of view and probably wont make any friends writing this. but it happened to me before so dont blame me. blame my exes. i also know that the following points do not always apply to everybody, but i have yet to come across a specimen that does not have at least one of these traits.

 

1. very annoying is when a girl starts playing those mind games. ( no not flirting)the goal is to make the guy unsure. i am sick and tired of that and rather walk away then play the game.

 

2. general bitching. commenting or critisizing all the time. fun for you to do. not so for the person you are talking about or the person having to listen to you all the time. i dont care if my socks dont match.

 

3. which brings me to the next one. stop trying to change me. you love me for what i am or go look for another guy. i am not some kinda project to work on and change into what you want.

 

4. half of the world population is female(giver or take a couple million). so its not weird i know other girls/women. i dont like it when i am then monitored constantly or getting the question who is she and how do you know her all the time. trust goes both ways. trust me like i am trusting you.

 

5. being so hypocrit. why is it not ok for a guy to look at a pretty girl. but its ok for girls to look at a gutlooking guy. nuff said.

 

6. i am not your dog or pet. so stop treating me like one. that and the general belief of that you are better then me.

 

7. magazines are not textbooks. stop believing that cosmo is the effing bible or so. they are just writing stuff that you want to read. not whats true.

 

8. when in arguments digging up stuff that was buried long in the past. stop living in the friggin past. come on people.

 

9. think you are the center of my universe. no i still have friends i like to hang out with. yes some of them are girls. but trust me when i say i wont make a move.

 

10. why do i have to go to your friends events/invitations and you not going the invites of my friends.

 

11. being used and then discarded/traded up for a better looking model. you hate it whan a guy does it. the opposite is also not that elegant.

 

there are many more reasons. too long to list it all here. again this does not apply to all girls. dont take it all too personally.

 

but for the reasons above plus a pvc or dakimakura or a 2d waifu will never: lie to you, cheat on you, belittle you, stab you in the back. and will always look thesame and smiling to you is why i understand the people living in fantasy. because its safe. never risk of having to suffer a broken heart again.

 

From what I read, I will be as calm as possible here.

 

I am sorry that you encountered the un-nice girls. At least you know it doesn't apply to all the women. But I have to warn you; if you shut yourself into fantasy, you WILL never have a lead in life like those loser-types there. As a fellow member, I don't want you to become a zebra eaten by the lion or the animal who is unable to survive the harsh wilderness.

 

Ask yourself; do you think having 2D girls who will never cheat on you is the best? Do you think permanently locking up yourself in deluded fantasy is really the best? Also, don't you think maybe your ideal woman may be deluded too? Do you think that having these 2D wives will give you true happiness, not the happiness you experience? Also, do you think it is really correct to live a life without being heartbroken?

 

Just having a 2D waifu will never ever make you happy. When I was small, I did that, relying on 2D husbands. I was happy at first, because he will never move like you said, and you won't feel heart broken. However, I realized that wasn't correct, and it was wrong. It was wrong because it wasn't a proper way of life, and fantasy isn't real. As humans, we must suffer the thing called reality. If we shut into the world of fantasy, we will fall and we will perhaps end up lower than garbage; if we are lower than garbage, we will never be recycled, as in finding a new opening to our lives.

 

We live in a world where people aren't exactly perfect as your waifus. We can find similar, but never exact. Think, there are men who cheats, lies, use women as toys and act like the girls you just mentioned. So, men aren't the only ones, but women too. You have to face it. Face the fact that it will take longer for some to find a real partner who isn't 2D. That is the basic of life, to go through being heartbroken and experiencing pain while we also experience the joy of living, and we get our reward after death, whether it is in absolute oblivion or in heaven. If you don't understand that leaving fantasy and facing reality is the basic, I think it is the best to ask yourself.

 

Trust me. All must leave fantasy. So do you. If you insist Your listings made me sad. It will probably sadden others too, even the men too. I wish I have the power to turn your head around. I am not saying you should dump out your 2D girls, you are welcome to have them, but that is what you should consider since that is quite unhealthy. And I don't want to end up hating you for that, and I am pretty sure there are others who don't want you like that too. So, man up. You WILL find a girl who will never do that.

 

If you don't want this, your choice. But one will suffer these consequences later in life. If not in life, perhaps, after death, atheist or not.

 

Just a friendly reminder to rethink from a member. No intend of insult.

 

sooooooow. making alot of assumptions right here.

yes i am currently single.

no i am not looking for a girl, because i enjoy my life as it is right now. i will eventually get back out there.

i am not one of those waifu guys. but i can understand why some do. please read properly.

 

now this is nothing personal but i would like to take a chance to point out that the list is not completely bs. i have a feeling that you are currently being guilty of number 3 on the list. trying to change me...

 

the points are just what came up in my mind as i was typing. it is not complete. also notice that they are all about character/personality. dont even get me started on the whole make up and appearance thing.

 

it just further proves my point that people should respect the list.

maybe this is a gut time for a challenge.

Guys if you feel like it go and see if your significant other(or coworker or whatever) has one of these...

lets call it turnoffs for the moment

sooooooow. making alot of assumptions right here.

yes i am currently single.

no i am not looking for a girl, because i enjoy my life as it is right now. i will eventually get back out there.

i am not one of those waifu guys. but i can understand why some do. please read properly.

 

now this is nothing personal but i would like to take a chance to point out that the list is not completely bs. i have a feeling that you are currently being guilty of number 3 on the list. trying to change me...

 

the points are just what came up in my mind as i was typing. it is not complete. also notice that they are all about character/personality. dont even get me started on the whole make up and appearance thing.

 

it just further proves my point that people should respect the list.

maybe this is a gut time for a challenge.

Guys if you feel like it go and see if your significant other(or coworker or whatever) has one of these...

lets call it turnoffs for the moment

 

I am sorry, and I did not intend to be number 3 but I suppose it did. I will apologize for it.

 

If you aren't like those waifu guys, then kudos to you.

 

Again, I still understand your list, and I agree there are a lot of bitches like that (And I hate these girls too. Alot of them in my class.).

Okay, let me be the village idiot and sum this up as: "Some don't like the waifu/2D culture and have very strong opinions against it while others don't care either way". So, can we just agree to disagree then and respect each other's opinions and leave it at that because I'm thinking, and this is just probably me, but this whole topic is getting kinda too personal

 

P.S. Shinegamix

I'm guilty of the matching socks thing, can't stand having hubby laughed at for wearing mismatched clothing unless its on Halloween. He understands though .

I've gotten quite a lot of unhappy feedback about this thread... complaints ranging from "This is just bashing the topic, not discussing it" to "I don't appreciate the harsh language"... and I've noticed that within the replies the original creator has said they will ask the mods to delete it... so I'm locking this bad boy down, and in a few days I will delete it.

 

I am not deleting it outright because I don't want to cause extra drama of "OMG, where did that thread go?!"

 

If folks want to start another thread on the same topic, in which there is a true discussion (present the matter in a neutral light, just the facts, and then let people discuss their opinions on it), that is perfectly acceptable.